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Welcome to By Design
Why this newsletter exists, who it's for, and what to expect each Sunday.
There's a particular kind of tiredness that comes from living a life you didn't actually design.
You optimized the calendar. You followed the playbooks. You shipped the things. And yet, somewhere underneath all of it, there's a quiet voice asking: is this actually what I wanted, or did I just inherit it?
This newsletter is for that voice.
What By Design is
By Design is a weekly dispatch about systems, strategy, AI, and intentional living — written for people who refuse to live on default.
Every Sunday, I'll send one essay. Sometimes it'll be about an idea I've been chewing on. Sometimes it'll be a system I've built and broken and rebuilt. Sometimes it'll be a story.
What it won't be: a content marketing funnel. A list of "5 ways to optimize your morning." A newsletter that exists to sell you the next newsletter.
What to expect
A few things you can count on:
- One essay, one Sunday. No daily noise. No firehose.
- Real systems, not theory. If I'm writing about something, I've lived it.
- Honest about the tradeoffs. Every framework breaks somewhere. I'll tell you where.
- Written for builders. Founders, operators, designers, engineers, parents, anyone whose work compounds.
Why now
I spent a long time confusing productivity with intentionality. They are not the same thing.
Productivity gets more done. Intentionality decides what's worth doing in the first place. One without the other is either burnout or drift.
This newsletter is my attempt to do both, out loud, in public, with you.
If that sounds like your kind of thing, I'm glad you're here.
— Dami
By Design